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Alternative Resolution
Alternative to what? To litigation that begins and ends with a Winner and a Loser. To the very public airing of private family matters including intimacies shared between partners never expecting them to be revealed to the world. To a process that is expensive in every way imaginable.

 

Charlottesville, Mar 2009
A weak economy and dwindling personal finances have impacted when and how married couples get a divorce in the Charlottesville area. Local mediation groups and lawyers have reported changes in how often couples seek mediation to draft a separation agreement and how long they'll wait before filing for divorce. The Mediation Center of Charlottesville has seen an increase in the number of couples wanting to use mediation to draft agreements - mediation is significantly cheaper thank taking a divorce case to court.

Between July and December of 2008, the nonprofit center handled 2.1 self-referred mediations per month for couples who wanted to split. Since the start of 2009, the center is averaging five self-referred mediations a month.

Twin Cities Daily Planet
February 08, 2009
A new Court of Appeals mediation program for family law cases is saving thousands of dollars for the litigants and for the court. About half of the first twenty cases to go through the program were successfully settled, according to John Kostouros, director of the state court information office. That saves the cost of transcripts (which run to hundreds of dollars), of lawyers' fees, and of court and judicial time. (Other cases are still making their way through the mediation process.)

The pilot program for mediation in family law cases was launched in the September 2008. The Family Law Appellate Mediation program is funded for a one year trial period, through a $30,000 grant from the State Justice Institute for technical assistance, training mediators, design and development and evaluation. More...
www.tcdailyplanet.net/article/2009/02/08/court-appeals-testing-new-mediation-process.html

 

 

 

 

 

Some people wonder how this can work -- won't there be fireworks?!?! After all, we do have irreconcilable differences. How do we cooperate and compromise?


Avoiding Fireworks

Select a mediator you trust. Prepare for the process at each step. Do your own homework. Listen carefully and speak thoughtfully.

Finding Solutions

Remember why you chose mediation. You want to find your own solutions, not have someone else's imposed on you. Stay focused on this reality and you will take the high road when it's really important.

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